behaviour rules

Leave social values and norms at the door and respect each person in his or her uniqueness. We don't have perverts. But there is mutual trust, values and norms.  

The rules of conduct are intended to regulate common interaction in our community and at our events. They should ensure that everyone involved feels safe and comfortable and that everyone knows what to expect. Among other things, through these rules we create a common space in which everyone can feel good and develop freely.

What can you expect

Together with you we create ...

... a safe space for you!

... a space of mutual respect.

...  a room where there are no perversions.

...  a room where we live out BDSM together.

...  a room where you can try new things.

...  a space where newbies are welcome.

...  a room  the kinky  Lifestyle.

The rules set out here are intended to ensure this. They are regularly adapted and revised. At some events, some or all of the rules can be overridden in order to better serve the spirit of the event. You will find this in the context of the event description. Otherwise these rules apply here.

behaviour rules

  • First of all, everyone is welcome who can (also) have male characteristics (appearance, body parts, appearance, etc.). This includes many forms of divers, as well as intersex people, trans men, non-binary, feminine men, queer men, and more.  It is important that this can be seen on the door without explanation. The door's decision is final.

  • No form of discrimination is tolerated within our premises! No matter what this refers to!

  • A no means no and not everyone has to get along with everyone. If you don't like someone, you can respectfully share it. This can only refer to sub-areas like that you don't like sex, no BDSM or you don't like talking to someone.

  • We do not allow arguments, rabble-rousing, grabbing or other inappropriate behavior. Please relocate your personal  Problems on the street and just avoid you in the club. There is enough space for everyone. 

  • In the play areas you should play and talk in the bar area. If you want to play in the bar area, you are welcome to do so. 

  • Those who play with each other have the right to remain among themselves. The cathedral invites the third to take part. The sub may refuse this.

  • Under no circumstances may a third party intervene in the game without being asked. If someone gaws too intrusively, they can be sent away. 
  • Everyone can watch in the bar area. However, interventions are only permitted here upon request.
  • Small talk is not allowed in the play area. Dirty talk, agreements or other communication important for the game is permitted.
  • In principle, the cathedral is responsible for its sub. Each sub must inform the cathedral about any restrictions and taboos in advance.
  • In addition to the specific stop word, the traffic light code and the international Mayday also apply to all participants. Our team and regular guests will intervene should this be the case. 
  • However, cruising friends are not welcomed if they have no manners to bother grabbers or others with their urgency. Anyone who runs through the store jerking off is also wrong with us. Better get to know a few people and then have fun together with them!

  • Exhibitionism and voyeurism are allowed unobtrusively. 

  • Treating each other with respect is essential. No matter what role you have, whether you are master, slave, DOM, sub or switcher. Humiliation is only possible for sexual stimulation during play and at the express request of both partners. 

  • Our play area is super clean, subtly lit and equipped with sufficient hygiene and cleaning items. Please use this after playing.  

  • SinBerlin also has showers and an infrared sauna. In principle, the shower is always available to you, but the sauna is only available from time to time. Since there are special rules of conduct for both, we ask you to ask briefly beforehand if you want to use one or the other. 

  • Photography at the event is only permitted by our hosts. He will make sure that all persons depicted have explicitly consented to the picture. So if you want to take a picture of yourself, ask us and we will be happy to shoot this for you.

  • In principle, mobile phones are to be returned to the bar when entering the club. They are deposited as a deposit for your drinks and thus we reduce unwanted photography and long chatting. Should it be "urgent", you can get your cell phone back temporarily and only as long as you are sitting at the bar.